Coleen Garcia rumesbak sa mga kumuwestiyon sa gender identity ng anak

PINALAGAN ng aktres na si Coleen Garcia ang isang Facebook post tungkol sa gender identity at sexuality ng anak nila ni Billy Crawford na si Amari Jayden.
Kumalat sa social media ang pagsagot umano ng TV host-actress sa mga online comments hinggil sa sekswalidad ni Amari dahil lamang sa pagkahilig nito sa mga bulaklak at halaman
Nakapangalan sa mag-inang Coleen at Amari ang Facebook page kung saan naka-post ang sinasabing pagresbak ng wifey ni Billy sa mga judgmental na bashers.
Ang mababasa sa FB post, "I don't understand why some people assume a child's gender identity or sexuality just because of their interests.
"Liking flowers doesn't define who a child is.
"Amari has loved flowers and plants since he was little, and that's simply part of who he is, curious, gentle, and appreciative of nature.
"Let's be more mindful and stop labeling children based on stereotypes.
"Interests don't determine gender or sexuality.
"Kids should be free to enjoy gentle things, creative things, and beautiful things, like flowers, without being boxed into assumptions."
Nakakuha ng napakaraming komento mula sa netizens ang naturang post kaya naman nagdesisyon si Coleen na pabulaanan ang siya ang nag-post nito sa Facebook.
Sa kanyang Instagram Stories, mariin itong itinanggi ng aktres, "This page is not mine, so I never responded to that woman's ignorant comments, although I do agree with what they responded, and with many of the other parents who have been chiming in."
Tinawag din niyang "disgusting" ang mga malilisyoso at offensive na comments ng ilang social media users.
Isang netizen na nagpakilalang Psychology major ang nagsabing, "Hoy FYI coleen, there's nothing wrong with my comment. that's how i see things, and isa pa wala namang mali if mag grow si amari na bakla, bayot or bading.
"Sa totoo lang hindi naman kasi talaga normal sa batang lalaki na mahilig sa flowers. dapat kasi ikaw rin as nanay, bola, boxing or baril barilan pinabahawak mo sa kanya."
Sagot sa kanya ni Coleen, "I wouldn't waste my breath or my time trying to justify my son's interests to someone we don't even know and who only sees 5% of our lives based on what I occasionally choose to share.
"I wouldn't try to convince you that you're wrong because, frankly, I don't really care about the opinions of people like you.
"People who go out of their way to say something unkind about an innocent child who they' ve never even met.
"Can we all just pause to think… seriously… what kind of person even does that?
"It's disgusting behavior.
"I would be more proud to have a gay friend or relative than to ever be associated with someone who bashes or gives unsolicited comments to strangers online regarding their children.
"I would rather have no college degree than be a 'psychology major' but not even know basic human decency. You can read books but you can't read a room.
"You want to study and understand the human mind and behavior, but you'd probably lack the compassion to do anything good with what you know and learn.
"You wanna assume certain things about my son? You've also given us enough to assume these things about you," pahayag ng aktres.
Nagbigay pa siya ng mensahe para sa lahat, "I dream of a world where children can be loved and accepted for who they are, without having to be boxed in by society's standards and assumptions; where they have the freedom to unapologetically be themselves, so they can grow into secure, confident, compassionate, and empathetic adults who bring out the best in the people around them.
"Seeing and appreciating the simple beauties of this world does not make you less of a man.
"Being gentle with God's creations does not make you weak."
"I know this is why I was blessed to be a boy mom. I grew up with men, and let me tell you this: I will not let toxic masculinity have a place in our home.
"I know the world won't easily give my boys that space and grace, but I will always fight for it.
"If we want a better, kinder, safer world for our children, we need to pave the way.
"I'll never have full control over what happens outside our home or what other people think and say, but what I can do is give my boys a strong foundation that won't easily be shaken—so that one day, when someone has the audacity to verbalize their ignorance, they will know how to respond with self-confidence and grace," litanya pa ng celebrity mom.
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